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How to date online?

Using online chat - it's the best way!

Find real relationships online.


How to date online - using online chats as dating sites


First of all, dating online is not exactly what it in real life. Before you get down and join a website made for dating or an an online chat, you might want to sit down and figure out exactly what is it that you are expecting from the internet dating sites. This is going to get you into the right mindset and you won’t be disappointed - know that people might feel like they have more freedom online, less consequences, so their behavior might be more open, also in an obnoxious way. It’s true that it can be harder to find real lasting relationships online, but it’s not impossible - give it a try.

You want to make sure that you are straightforward in your personal statements and the info that you include on your profile. Attracting people under false pretenses is never going to get you where you want to be, especially if you want to have a good and honest relationship with them. Lying will get you nowhere, whether it’s about your appearance, like using fake photos, or who you are and what you do in life.

Another thing to remember is to make sure that your profile looks interesting enough, but gives out relevant information as well. Post nice pictures that make your best features stand out. Make sure these are accurate pictures, not too old. If you used to look better and now find yourself less attractive than before, do not post those pictures. It will all become clear when you talk on webcam or meet face to face - and nothing good will come out of that.

There are probably quite a few different guys trying to talk to the same woman so you need to make sure that you are the one who’s actually worth the time. Asking ‘how are you’ all the time and having nothing else to say will never make you seem like you’re the best option for that girl. At some point, proceed to ask for the person’s phone number or social media accounts so you can chat later, try not to wait for too long. Try to be the first one to do it and continue the conversation elsewhere - that will give you space in her private life, you will maybe be seen as someone closer than just random people that she met online that she talked to once or twice. Do not overwhelm the other person, but make sure she remembers you, especially if you are getting the reactions that you want.

However, don’t be so focused on impressing the other person that you forget about yourself and forget to think whether you really want the other person or not. So consider if this is the right person for you and continue your friendship and take it to the next level or not - everything is in your hands.